Your Guide to Luxury HawaiI Destination Weddings & Styled Elopements

Aloha, lovebirds! Hawaii’s soft golden sands, swaying palms, and sunsets are so stunning they deserve their own Instagram account. The unparalleled setting draws visitors worldwide, especially couples looking for a romantic and adventurous wedding or elopement. As a photographer specializing in Hawaii destination weddings and intimate elopements, capturing love stories on these breathtaking islands is an honor. From grand celebrations to intimate “just-us” elopements with all the pretty details, this guide will help you plan your perfect day in paradise.

If you need help choosing the best time of year or picking the most romantic locations and curating memorable activities, here’s everything you need to know about saying “I do” in Hawaii.

Why Choose a Hawaii Destination Wedding?

You already know that Hawaii is a postcard-perfect paradise. The island state offers everything you could want and a unique sense of “aloha” that makes every moment magical. If you’re unfamiliar with Hawaii, it’s much more than the beaches! Think dramatic cliffs plunging into turquoise waters, misty waterfalls, lush tropical forests, and endless beaches with sunsets that paint the sky. Beyond its natural beauty, Hawaii offers a warm, inviting spirit (the aloha spirit!) and a variety of gorgeous venues and world-class services to create a truly bespoke experience. You’ll experience: 

1. Stunning Backdrops – From white sandy beaches to emerald jungles, dramatic cliffs, and volcanic landscapes, Hawaii has a variety of vibrant backdrops that make for jaw-dropping wedding photos.
2. Year-Round Tropical Climate – Hawaii is warm and inviting year-round, making it an ideal location for couples looking to escape the cold or embrace a tropical paradise.
3. Cultural Richness – With its unique blend of Polynesian traditions, Hawaiian music, and warm ‘ohana spirit, your wedding can incorporate meaningful cultural elements that make it even more special.
4. Built-In Honeymoon – Why travel elsewhere when you’re already in one of the most romantic places on Earth? Stay a few extra days for waterfalls, snorkeling, and relaxing on the beach!

Best Times of Year for Hawaii Destination WeddinGs

Hawaii is a year-round destination, but particular times of the year may better suit your vision. Here are the pros and cons of each season:

Spring (March-May)

• Pros: Fewer crowds, mild weather, and blooming flowers. Beaches and venues are more accessible, and you’ll appreciate the lower travel costs compared to peak seasons.
• Cons: The islands get occasional spring showers, but they’re short-lived and often lead to gorgeous rainbows (not much of a con).

Summer (June-August)

• Pros: Long, sunny days and lush greenery make this an ideal time for outdoor weddings and adventurous photoshoots.
• Cons: This is peak travel season, so venues and accommodations book up early and have higher prices.

Fall (September-November)

• Pros: Gorgeous weather, fewer tourists, and lower travel costs. September and October offer some of the clearest skies of the year.
• Cons: Fewer events and festivals to enjoy if you’re extending your wedding trip into a full vacation. But again, it’s hardly a con if you’re here to enjoy the natural beauty.

Winter (December-February)

• Pros: A perfect escape from cold weather elsewhere, with warm temps and dreamy whale-watching season (great for excursions!). Winter sunsets are especially magical.
• Cons: This is a popular season for tourists and honeymooners, so plan your venue and accommodations well in advance.

Quick Tip: Sunrise vs. Sunset Ceremonies

For couples opting for beach weddings, sunrise ceremonies are often quieter, with softer light for photography. Sunset ceremonies are incredibly romantic but tend to attract more onlookers. Either way, the light will be dreamy!

Most Romantic Locations for Hawaii Destination Weddings & Elopements

With six main islands to choose from, each offering its own unique vibe, the most challenging part of planning your Hawaiian destination wedding might be selecting the perfect location (but you really can’t go wrong)! Here are some of my favorites:

Oahu

•  Lanikuhonua Cultural Institute: This oceanfront venue on Oahu’s west side feels like a dream, with its expansive lawns and breathtaking sunset views.
•  Waimea Valley: For couples who love nature, this lush botanical valley offers an intimate waterfall setting.
• Halekulani Hotel: A luxury property in Waikiki that combines elegance, impeccable service, and iconic Diamond Head views.
• Kualoa Ranch: This is my favorite for dramatic mountain backdrops. The private nature reserve is perfect for adventurous couples who like a touch of ranch life.
• Lanikai Beach: This quiet beach has soft white sand and calm turquoise water.

Maui

• Makena Cove: Known as “Secret Beach,” this secluded spot offers dramatic lava rock formations and turquoise waters.
• Haiku Mill: A historic sugar mill turned wedding venue that feels straight out of a fairytale, with vines, waterfalls, and tropical flowers cascading down its walls.
• Kapalua Bay: For a romantic beach ceremony surrounded by golden sands and calm waters.
• Haleakalā National Park: Picture sunrise elopements above the clouds!
• Wailea: This area has luxury resorts and lava rock beaches for a unique yet luxurious experience.

Kauai

• Na ‘Aina Kai Botanical Gardens: A private garden estate offering a variety of picturesque ceremony backdrops, from ocean bluffs to tranquil lagoons.
• Hanalei Bay: Imagine saying your vows on a crescent-shaped beach with the lush green mountains of Kauai as your backdrop.
• Waimea Canyon: This “Grand Canyon of the Pacific” offers jaw-dropping views for adventurous couples.
• Na Pali Coast: epic cliffs, accessible by boat or helicopter.
• Wailua Falls: Jaw-dropping waterfall backdrops.

Big Island

• Puako Beach: A serene and lesser-known gem with tide pools and lava rocks, perfect for intimate ceremonies.
• Volcanoes National Park: Exchange vows with the dramatic beauty of volcanic landscapes surrounding you.
• Four Seasons Hualalai: A luxury resort that can host a flawless wedding and pamper you along the way.
• Punaluʻu Black Sand Beach: Unique and striking black sands (as the name suggests).
• Mauna Kea: This spot has unparalleled stargazing!

Planning Tips for Hawaii Destination Weddings & Elopements

And finally, here are a few tips to get you ready to say, “I do” aloha style! (Plus a little recap of the islands.)

Choose the Right Island for Your Style

Each Hawaiian island has its own vibe and personality. Think about the kind of experience you want and choose accordingly:

• Oahu: Perfect for couples who want the best of both worlds—bustling city life in Honolulu and tranquil, secluded beaches.
• Maui: Known as the “Valley Isle,” Maui is ideal for luxury weddings. Think five-star resorts, vineyard venues, and iconic sunset views from its pristine beaches.
• Kauai: Nicknamed the “Garden Isle,” Kauai is ideal for nature-loving couples. Expect dramatic cliffs, hidden waterfalls, and lush rainforests.
• Big Island: If you’re adventurous, the Big Island offers unique landscapes like black sand beaches, lava fields, and stargazing at Mauna Kea.
• Lanai or Molokai: For ultimate seclusion, these smaller islands are perfect for intimate, off-the-grid ceremonies.

Hire a Local Wedding Planner

Planning a wedding from afar–even a small one–can be overwhelming, so I highly recommend working with a local wedding or elopement planner. They’ll have insider knowledge of the best vendors, venues, and logistics, ensuring your day unfolds without a hitch.

Set Your Date 

Hawaii is best enjoyed when you have time to spare. Even if you’re only staying on one island, there’s so much to enjoy, see, and explore. The long flight and time change will probably leave you a little jet lagged upon arrival and your return home, so give yourself at least a week to enjoy your experience and rest.

Book Vendors and Venues Early

Hawaii is a popular wedding destination, so top-tier vendors and venues book up quickly. Reach out to vendors, florists, and officiants at least 9-12 months in advance if possible. I would love to be there to capture all your sweetest moments, so get with me as soon as possible so I can get the trip on the books. 

Incorporate Hawaiian Traditions

Infuse your wedding day with authentic Hawaiian traditions for an unforgettable experience. Consider a lei exchange, a Hawaiian chant (oli), or a ukulele performance at your ceremony. I promise it’s worth it!

Plan for Your Guests

If you’re hosting a large destination wedding, make it easy for your guests by providing accommodations suggestions, transportation info, and travel tips. A custom wedding website is a great way to keep everyone informed.

Let’s Jet Set to Hawaii!

And that’s a wrap! If you’re as in love with Hawaii destination weddings as I am, I hope this guide gets you started on your big plans. As always, feel free to reach out with questions. I’d love to chat with you!