The Ultimate Guide to Big Sur & Carmel Elopements (With Sneak Peek)

Eloping is an intimate and adventurous way to celebrate your love, and there’s no better place to do it than along the breathtaking coastlines of Big Sur and Carmel, California. With their dramatic landscapes, serene beaches, and enchanting forests, these locations offer the perfect backdrop for a romantic escape. Whether you crave a ceremony with crashing waves beneath rugged cliffs or a quiet moment beneath towering redwoods, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know to plan your dream elopement in Big Sur and Carmel.

Big Sur State Park Elopement Sneak Peek

Lauren and Dan invited the nearest and dearest to witness their Big Sur elopement among the redwoods. Colette Cuccia, Central California Event & Wedding Designer, did a fabulous job bringing their intimate forest elopement to life. Even the fog and light rain just amplified the ethereal romance even more! Their ceremony took place at Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park, one of my favorites, and NIKA131 Productions captured the day in video format so they can relive their day for years to come. It was incredible to join forces with this dream team for an elopement that belongs on the front cover of a magazine. I hope you’re as in love with it as I am.

Why Choose Big Sur or Carmel for Your Elopement?

Stunning Scenery

Big Sur and Carmel are renowned for their natural beauty. Picture saying your vows with the majestic Pacific Ocean crashing at your back or exchanging rings under the hushed canopy of ancient redwoods. The sheer variety of landscapes ensures you can find the perfect spot that resonates with your vision.

Intimate and Personal

Elopements allow you to focus on what truly matters—your love for each other. Without the pressures of a large traditional wedding, you can create a ceremony that’s uniquely you, whether it’s just the two of you or with a few close friends and family.

Adventure Awaits

For couples who crave adventure, Big Sur and Carmel offer numerous opportunities to explore. From hiking along scenic trails to exploring charming coastal towns, your elopement can be as relaxed or as daring as you desire.

Lodging from Cozy to Chic

Whether you prefer a cozy cabin, a luxury resort, or a charismatic bed and breakfast, Big Sur and Carmel have a variety of accommodations to fit your style and comfort level.

Carmel VS Big Sur Elopement Experiences

Big Sur: A Jewel of Natural Beauty

Big Sur is renowned for its dramatic coastline, towering redwoods, and sweeping ocean views. The rugged cliffs and pristine beaches provide a stunning backdrop for any elopement. If you’re a nature lover or simply want a day surrounded by awe-inspiring landscapes, Big Sur is the place for you.

Carmel: A Quaint Coastal Town

Carmel-by-the-Sea, often simply called Carmel, is a charming seaside town known for its storybook cottages, artistic vibe, and dog-friendly beaches. With its European flair, the close-knit town offers a cozy and intimate setting perfect for a romantic elopement.

Best Spots for an Elopement

Big Sur Wedding Locations

• Pfeiffer Beach: Pfeiffer Beach is iconic for its stunning purple sands and incredible rock formations. It is a popular destination, so visiting during off-peak times can offer more privacy.
  
• Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park: Famous for the picturesque McWay Falls, this park is a dream location for nature-loving couples. They prohibit beach ceremonies, but the surrounding trails and overlooks provide magnificent views.
  
• Garrapata State Park: With its dramatic ocean views, scenic hiking trails, wildflowers, and rocky shorelines, Garrapata is perfect for adventurous couples. The park offers several trails leading to panoramic vistas ideal for saying “I do.” 
  
• Bixby Creek Bridge: Iconic and breathtaking, this landmark is perfect for dramatic photos and a memorable ceremony experience.
  
• Redwood Forests: Consider the redwood groves in Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park for a more secluded, otherworldly setting. The towering trees create a serene and magical atmosphere. 
  
• Big Sur Coastal Cliffs: For those dreaming of dramatic vistas, the cliffs of Big Sur provide unparalleled views. Popular spots include Bixby Bridge and McWay Falls, but countless hidden gems lie along Highway 1.

Carmel Wedding Locations

• Carmel Beach: Carmel Beach offers gorgeous settings where you can feel the sand between your toes as you exchange vows. This beautiful white-sand beach is perfect for a sunset ceremony. With the iconic Pebble Beach Golf Links and stunning views, Carmel Beach provides a quintessential coastal setting. Plus, it welcomes furry friends if you want to include them.
  
• Point Lobos State Natural Reserve: Referred to as the “crown jewel” of California’s state park system, Point Lobos offers dramatic seascapes and is home to diverse wildlife. It’s an exquisite location for couples who want a natural and serene backdrop.
  
• Mission Ranch: Clint Eastwood owns Carmel’s Mission Ranch. This stunning historic property combines rustic charm with elegance, providing a unique venue for your elopement.
  
• Carmel Valley: For couples looking for more sunshine and a rustic vibe, Carmel Valley offers vineyards, rolling hills, and oak-studded landscapes. It’s a dream for those who want a touch of countryside charm.

Securing Permits & Legalities for California Elopements

• Marriage License: You need a marriage license from any county clerk’s office to get married in California. Monterey County, which encompasses Big Sur and Carmel, is conveniently located for this purpose. Be sure to bring valid identification and any necessary paperwork.
  
• Ceremony, Event, & Photography Permits: Some locations, particularly state parks, require permits for ceremonies. You wouldn’t want to show up ready to tie the knot only to be asked to leave or hit with a fine. To ensure all regulations are met, check with local authorities or hire a planner familiar with the area. This Monterey County Guide & Directory can help you find what you need. 

When to Elope in Central California

• Weather Considerations: California’s Central Coast enjoys a mild climate year-round, but the best months for an elopement are typically September through November when the weather is most predictable. Spring months can also be lovely, although the famous Big Sur fog can be more prevalent.
  
• Ideal Seasons: Spring and fall offer mild weather and fewer crowds, perfect for intimate elopements.
  
• Weekday vs. Weekend: Take it a step further for a more intimate experience, and consider a weekday elopement. These days are generally less crowded, offering you more privacy and tranquility.

Hiring Vendors for Your Carmel or Big Sur Elopement

• Photographer: Capturing the magic of your day is crucial. I specialize in elopements, am well acquainted with this area, and love a good love story infused with adventure. I can help you choose from the best spots and lighting conditions for your wedding date. Connect with me to get started.
   
• Officiant: Whether you want a traditional officiant or a friend to officiate your ceremony, ensure they are legally recognized to perform marriages in California. Consider these reputable vendors:
  • Weddings in Monterey: Offers tailored, affordable ceremonies in Monterey, Big Sur, Carmel, and Pacific Grove tailored to your love story.
  • Monterey Ceremonies by Zia: Zia has a knack for considering your personality and vision. She specializes in crafting intimate, meaningful, and humor-infused elopement ceremonies.
    
• Elopement Planner & Designer: I highly recomend Colette Cuccia, Central California Event & Wedding Designer, who curated this beautiful elopement. She has years of experience in this industry and location.
  
• Florist: A simple bouquet can add a beautiful touch to your ceremony. Local florists can create arrangements that complement the natural setting. Check out these two: 
  • Seascape Flowers: Renowned for their locally-inspired arrangements reflecting the region’s natural beauty.
  • Fleurish Floral Designs: Offers bespoke floral designs tailored to your vision and venue.
    
• Hair and Makeup: Choose a stylist who understands the local climate and can create a look that lasts throughout the day.
  
• Bakers: Consider a small, personal cake or dessert that can be enjoyed post-ceremony.

Accommodation and Dining

• Lodging: From rustic cabins and charming inns to luxury resorts like Post Ranch Inn and Ventana Big Sur, there are accommodations for every preference.
  
• Dining: Celebrate your elopement with a meal at one of Carmel’s romantic restaurants or enjoy a private picnic overlooking the ocean. Use the Carmel By-the-Sea Travel Guide for a list of restaurants, entertainment, and shops.

Making the Most of Your Elopement

• Create a Timeline: Even though elopements are less formal, having a timeline can help ensure you capture all the moments you envision. Consider the time of day for the best lighting for photos and plan around any hiking or travel time needed to reach your location.
  
• Capture Memories: In addition to your photographer, a videographer can help create a cinematic record of your day. You might also want to keep a journal or write letters to each other to capture your thoughts and feelings on this special occasion. Your day will go oh-so-fast, and you’ll want as many memoirs as possible. 
  (I always tell my couples to save and back up their digital images and get prints as soon as they get them. It’s easy to get caught up in life’s busyness and let them sit in a digital black hole for years. If you don’t know how you want to display your photos yet, make an album at the bare minimum.)
  
• Incorporate Personal Touches: Whether it’s a handwritten vow, a special reading, or incorporating elements that reflect your shared hobbies, make your ceremony uniquely yours.
  
• Plan for the Weather & Pack Layers: The coastal weather can be unpredictable. Have a backup plan in case of rain, and dress appropriately for the temperature and conditions.
  
• Embrace Nature: Let the natural beauty of your surroundings play a central role in your ceremony. You need minimal decor when you have the ocean and forest as your backdrop. On that note, things may get a little messy, and that’s ok. In fact, real, raw, love-inspired images that showcase authentic adventure tend to be the best ones. (I recommend skipping the heels since they can get stuck and pose a fall risk.) Hiking boots with a wedding dress? Perfection!
  
• Plan a Post-Elopement Adventure: Whether hiking, dining at a local restaurant, or simply watching the sunset, plan a special activity to celebrate your marriage.

Ready to Elope in Carmel or Big Sur?

Eloping in Big Sur and Carmel is more than just a ceremony—it’s an outdoor immersion and a celebration of love in one of the most beautiful places on Earth. This ethereal, jaw-dropping location guarantees that your special day will be memorable, deeply personal, and filled to the brim with adventure.

As an adventure enthusiast myself, I’d be honored to be your elopement tour guide of sorts. Feel free to share your vision and inspiration, and we can make it happen. I wandered through many landscapes across the globe, and few can rival the beauty of this rugged part of the California coast. Big Sur, Carmel, and the Redwoods never disappoint for couples who want a wedding or elopement experience unlike any other.

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